Posts Tagged ‘leadership’

In the fall of 1995 I was flying over Naples, Italy on a beautiful, starry night. I remember that it was nearly impossible to tell where the land ended and the sky began because the lights of the city blended perfectly with the stars in the sky. Looking across the horizon I noticed the one distinguishing factor between the two: as we flew across the peninsula the lights from the city slowly moved from left to right across my window but the stars appeared to be fixed in place.

In that moment I felt like the Lord told me, “Look, Kraig… The things that man puts in place will come and go, but the things I set in place are established forever.”

In my heart I finally understood the significance of the old hymn:

O Lord my God, When I in awesome wonder, Consider all the works thy hands have made; I see the stars, I hear the rolling thunder, Thy power throughout the universe displayed; Then sings my soul, My Saviour God, to Thee, How great Thou art! How great Thou art!

The things that man puts in place will come and go…

After 150 years of dominance, the Assyrian Empire finally began to crumble. Weak leadership, generations of cruelty, distractions and overreaching military strategies began to take their toll on the Assyrians at the same time Babylon was rising in power. With the assistance of the Medes (more on them during the Rebuilding Crisis) Nineveh was destroyed in 612 B.C. and Babylon assumed supremacy over the land. Fifteen years later, Jerusalem itself fell to Babylonian control & its citizens were taken into captivity.

Those who find themselves at the top should remember the fragility of their position.

The things that man puts in place will come and go, but the things God sets in place are established forever…

Here are a few leadership takeaways:

  1. All earthly positions of leadership are temporary.
  2. Leadership is a gift from God & must be stewarded accordingly.
  3. You’re not the smartest or the most gifted person in your organization–you’re just the leader. (Thank you Andy Stanley for that one!)
  4. The perversion of purpose (as established by God) is sin — whether in leadership or any other sphere of life.
  5. The purpose of leadership is to serve others in justice, mercy & humility.
  6. Leaders should leverage their position & power to elevate others to achieve their full potential.
  7. Cruelty and disrespect from leadership breeds contempt and revolt. (If you lead with an iron first, you will fall on an iron sword.)
  8. Today’s subordinate may be tomorrow’s superior.
  9. You will be held accountable for the way you lead.
  10. God is watching.

On my way to the office this morning I listened to a leadership lesson from Dr. Henry Cloud called, “INTEGRITY: The Courage to Meet the Demands of Reality.”

Recorded in the spring of 2009, Cloud says that leaders need to have the character and integrity to embrace negative realities. 

“When we’re immature, we want problems to go away; we don’t embrace them intentionally. But mature leaders go looking for problems because they know that problems are the things that stand between them and the vision … Ultimately the greatest leaders are the ones who have given themselves to embrace the hardest problems.”

Then in the next breath he says, “Tiger Woods is one of my heros.”

Cloud explains that after winning his first Master’s tournament, Tiger focused on the problems in his golf game (rather than his success) & emerged as the greatest champion in the history of golf because “he morphed to meet the demands of reality; he embraced the negative realities about himself and the things he needed to change.”

Hmmmm … it’s amazing the difference a year can make!

Will Tiger Woods ever be used as an example of character and integrity again?

Before you answer too quickly, consider this:

If integrity is the ability to embrace the negative realities about yourself and change the things that need to change, then maybe it’s possible for Tiger’s character to catch-up with his golf game?

Remember, a fundamental Christian belief is that people can change through the power of the Holy Spirit and the saving grace of Jesus Christ.

Now before you pummel me with objections that Tiger is a Buddhist (maybe?) and thus declare Tiger’s ultimate destiny while secretly hoping for his failure, perhaps you should consider the opportunity Christians have to guide a broken man onto a path of forgiveness and restoration.

What would Jesus do?

Perry Nobel

Yup, that’s Dawn & me with our “good friend” Perry Noble, Senior Pastor of NewSpring Church, who killed it this morning talking about FOUR CONVICTIONS OF VISION!

We are in Atlanta this week on a LEADERSHIP BINGE known as Catalyst. If you’d like a backstage peek at what we’re up to, you can check out Catalyst Backstage.

We thought we’d offer you some of our favorite nuggets from the today…

FROM PERRY NOBLE:

1. “If God gives you a vision, He will continually take you to places that are uncomfortable.”
2. “‘I’m waiting on God’ is one of the stupidest statements a leader can make…Are you using prayer as an excuse to delay obedience?”
3. “If people aren’t leaving — you’re not leading. The church is the ‘body’ & if you close the ‘back door’ — it ends up constipated!”
4. “God gave Satan three opportunities to create, and he made: (1) snakes, (2) spiders, and (3) cats.”
5. Honorable mention to “snow snakes” — trust me, you shoulda been here for that one!  (more…)

opportunity-failure

If only it were this simple to determine which decisions, ideas and actions would lead to great opportunities and which would lead to great failures. I think I would skip failure altogether. There is nothing down that route that appeals to me.

I hate failure. Which is a shame, ’cause I’m pretty good at it.

I perfected failure in high school. At the start of my 11th grade year I had a 0.4 GPA (yes, seriously, 0.4). That’s about the time I decided I didn’t like failure; but ironically that failure drove me toward success in college. I completed both a bachelor’s and a master’s degree with a 4.0 GPA. Here’s the thing: I very seriously doubt I would have been motivated to the success of a 4.0 if I never had the failure of a 0.4.

Sometimes failure comes as a result of my own poor decisions, planning, execution, or motivation. At other times failure happens as a result of things completely outside of my control. I suppose it doesn’t really matter; either way – failure is failure. And regardless of the reasons why failure comes, I can always learn something from it.

In that light, failure doesn’t make me a failure: failure makes me better. (more…)